After school activities and burnout
For millions of parents worldwide, the day does not end with the school bell. There are still pictures to be painted, songs to be sung, and games to be played. This all contributes to keeping children happy, safe, and out of trouble, but parents have to avoid going overboard.
After school is not baby-sitting:
After-school activities thrive only if they are backed by sufficient parental involvement. What would a soccer match be without parents cheering on their little heroes from the sidelines?
Research and choose:
Instead of letting convenience be the decisive factor, find out what interests your child. Once you select a program, read the fine print and find out what you have to contribute.
Free time:
Many children attend piano classes, followed by ballet, and squeeze in some time for play dates in between just before they rush home in time for bed. This rigor is too much for a child, so go slow.
When to quit:
Often, parents enroll their child in an activity only to discover that he may not be the prodigy they thought he would be. This is the time to let go. Your child may not become the next wonderkid, but let him cultivate an interest that he enjoys. Remember, happiness and fulfillment are all that matter.